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Love- What Does It Mean To You?

Not long ago, my boyfriend and I were

having a conversation about

our previous relationships.

 

Well, actually, to be more specific,

MY previous relationships since I have

... uh, a few in my past.  My boyfriend

was married for 19 years before his

divorce 9 years ago, so his list is a

tad bit shorter :-)

 

He asked what Love is to me now…

I couldn’t come up with an immediate

answer.  But after giving it some thought,

I came up with a few ideas.

 

So, in honor of Valentine’s Day,

here are some thoughts on Love,

and I'd love to hear yours as well.

 

Love means…

trust, acceptance, respect and appreciation,

those are the 4 biggies.

 

Love is…

the willingness to grow and be there for

someone, while also realizing that the goal

is not to ‘arrive’ somewhere in the future,

but to be fully present and appreciative

of where you are right now.

 

Love is…

an action and very often a choice.

And the goal is not to ‘fall in love,’ but to

‘grow in love,’ so you can become more of

who you are, not less.

 

Love…

should never make you feel like you are

‘less than’, but ‘more than’.  It should feel

expansive, not constrictive and restrictive.

 

Love is…

about looking for and seeing the best in

someone, even at times when they may

not be able to see it for themselves.

 

Love…

and fear can’t exist together, so I think love

is about letting go of fear and learning to trust.

 

And here’s the biggest thing I’ve learned about

Love…

you can only give Love to someone else,

when you’ve learned how to give it to yourself.

 

When you’ve learned to really trust, respect and

be honest with yourself, only then can you offer

those same things to someone else.

 

Only then can you make really wise choices

about the people you choose to be with in

your life, because those choices are based

in trust, respect and honesty with yourself,

and not based in fear.

 

I don’t know that earlier in my life,

I was completely conscious of the choices I made

about partners BEFORE I made them and why.

 

In part because I hadn’t taken the time to really

know myself and figure out what I wanted and why. 

 

So that’s my definition for Love.

 

And the best part is I realize that every single

experience I’ve had has allowed me to finally

learn all these things about myself, who I am

and what Love is to me.

 

Now that I can look back on every experience

I’ve had with love and appreciation for what it

taught me, I can look at the present and the future

with only love in my heart.

 

And ya know, that just really feels good.

 

I’d love to know what Love is to you…

 

My Valentine’s wish for you is that

whatever you do and whoever you’re with,

you treat yourself like the best Valentine

in the world… because you are.

 

And that’s what Love is really all about...

loving and appreciating who you are,

just as you are,

so you can share your wonderful self

with someone else.

 

With love, light and blessings,

 

Dawn

 

Past Relationships- How to release them so you can step into the future

Have you ever been in a relationship where you felt like no matter what you did or what you said, you were still attached to the person you were trying to leave behind?

Been there.  The last time, after I had exhausted all my resources for doing everything I knew to let go of the past, a very powerful visualization came to me one morning while I was meditating.

While I was going through this process, I wanted to feel like I was letting go of the past in a peaceful and harmonious way.

I wanted to feel like I was moving towards something I wanted rather than away from something I didn't want.

I've had a quite a few clients recently who were in the same place... needing and wanting to move on from the past, but not knowing how.   

This visualization worked so well for me, I now take all my clients through it as well, and I wanted to share it with you...

Feel free to pass it on if you know anyone who might be needing to leave the past behind, because until we fully complete and release our past relationships, we will continue to carry our emotional baggage into the future.

Take your time with this meditation and do it as often as necessary until you feel a sense of completion.

Find a comfortable place to sit and relax.

Close your eyes, take a few deep breaths.

Allow your awareness to rest gently on your heart.

Visualize yourself standing someplace quiet and peaceful.

Now visualize the person you would like to release from the past standing across from you.

You are each holding one end of a cord that runs between you.

This cord represents your attachment to each other and the energetic connection of your relationship.

You can visualize this cord as a golden rope of light, or a piece of heavy white cord, whatever feels right

for you.

Take a few minutes to tell this person anything you need to say to feel complete with the relationship.

You are speaking to this person’s higher self, so whatever you say will be understood.

Visualize them being appreciative of your telling them how you feel and accepting of anything you have to say.

When you feel complete, lovingly tell this person good-bye and thank them for everything you learned

while you were with them.

Very gently set your end of the cord that you were holding down on the ground.  By setting down your end of the cord, you have released your attachment to this person and the relationship completely.

There is no longer any energetic connection between you. 

You can visualize them setting down their end of the cord, or perhaps they have chosen to hang on to their end of the cord, whatever they choose to do in your visualization is fine.

But since you have set down your end of the cord, you are now free of your connection to the past.

Once you have said good-bye and set down the cord, visualize yourself turning and walking towards a beautiful, white light.

Within this beautiful white light is everything you now want to manifest in your life… all your dreams, goals, and desires.

Now that you have released and let go of the past, you are free to walk into this light and know that

everything is there waiting for you.

Your only job now is to feel what it’s like to be surrounded by everything you desire; your dreams are there waiting for you, you just need to open your arms and let them into your life.

The only thing that was holding you back was your attachment to the past.

Now that you’ve let that go, you are free to receive all the good waiting for you now and in the future.

Spend some time thinking about everything that this beautiful white light holds for you.

Write it all down… your ideal relationship and partner, your ideal career and financial resources, your ideal home life, your physical health and well-being.

Tap into the experience of what it would feel like to be living in your ideal life.

Place your hand over your heart and anchor those feelings of joy, happiness, peace, love, success, prosperity... whatever feelings represent your ideal life for you. 

Anytime you start to feel worried, doubtful or insecure, go back to this meditation and visualize yourself again gently putting down the cord to the past and walking towards the light of everything you want in your life.

Every time you do this visualization, you will be freeing yourself more and more from the past, and strengthening your connection to the future, your desires and effortlessly attracting them into your life.

I'd love to hear from you, and as always, if I can support you in any way, please let me know.

Until next time...

With love light and blessings,

Dawn

 

Dawn Allen, M.S.

Love & Law of Attraction Coach

Certified Dream Coach

Certified Passion Test Facilitator

541.608.0508

http://www.InspiredHeartCoaching.com

dawn@inspiredheartcoaching.com

What Do Men Really Want?

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I've asked my male clients this question.  I've gotten some great answers, which truthfully, surprised me at times.

From what I've learned listening to men, one of the biggest things men want is a woman who is confident and comfortable with herself.  When a woman is confident and comfortable in her own skin, she is able to give her attention to the man she is with, rather than worrying constantly about herself.

Men want to be with a woman who knows how to listen and be present with them, and isn't silently comparing them to an internal agenda she might have.  If a woman knows how to relax, be herself, and have a good time with a man, he will adore her for it.

Men really do want to make women happy.  If they think they're succeeding in that endeavor and being appreciated for their efforts, they'll try that much harder to make the woman happy and feel very drawn to be around her all the more.

Men want women who are interested in them and their lives.  If a woman talks incessantly about how miserable her ex was or about all the things that are going wrong in her life, a man is going to feel like no matter what he does, he's going to have a difficult time making her happy.

Men love feeling connected to a woman.  In today's world, we have so few times to actually make real connections with people, that when we do, it can be very powerful.  All making a real connection takes is for a woman to be able to listen, pay attention to the man she's with, and be interested.  If she can also enjoy herself in the process, be lighthearted and having a good time, men will think she's fabulous.

Of course, men like women who look nice, because men are very visual creatures.  But it's more about a woman looking like she's put a little bit of effort into looking nice for the man she's with, rather than any huge gestures.  Most men don't particularly need or want an extremely glamorous woman.  They just want someone who's attractive and knows how to take care of herself.

Men don't require a lot from women in order for them to be happy, because much of their masculine happiness comes from making the woman in their life happy.  If a man knows he's doing that, and that the woman appreciates it, that's what a man really wants.

7 Steps to Attracting Love

A client asked me today how she could shift her energy and vibration to attract what she wanted in a relationship and in her career.

I really believe that everything in our lives is about love and relationship; whether that is our relationship with others or our relationship with ourselves… it’s all about the love.

Here are seven steps to help you start consciously attracting love into your life:

1.  Love Yourself – You know the old saying, “If you don’t love yourself, then how is anyone else going to love you?”  It’s true.  Our relationships with others are mere reflections of our relationship with ourselves.  If you’re finding fault with yourself, wishing you were different than you are, either you will attract someone who will mirror those same beliefs about you, or you will create that same energy in your relationship with someone else by being critical of them and wishing they were different.

Show yourself the love, acceptance and appreciation you’d like to receive and you’ll be on your way to attracting the same thing from a man.  You’ll also be a woman who knows how to be loving, accepting, and appreciative of her partner.

2.  Let Go of ‘Need’ and ‘Attachment’ – It’s very difficult to attract and create what we want when we’re feeling needy or desperate.  In fact, that very energy tends to repel exactly what it is we want, especially when it comes to men.  As soon as you move into a feeling of playful expectation, bringing your energy back to what you want and knowing it’s on the way, the Universe has a space to start creating miracles for you.

Get clear about your desires for love, a soul mate, and a relationship.  State your intentions, write them down, and then let them go.  You then give the Universe a chance to work on bringing them to you and manifesting your desires.  But your energy has to be one of desire, not need, or desperation. 

3.  Listen To Your Intuition – If you feel drawn to do something, even if it doesn’t necessarily make sense, do it.  Your part in the co-creation process, besides being very clear about what you want, is to take action when you feel guided to do so.  You magnetize yourself to what you want to attract by taking action.  That action may be cleaning out a cluttered closet, or taking a class you wouldn’t normally have taken, but whatever it is you feel drawn to do, the Universe loves action.  Your step forward shows the Universe you’re serious about your intentions to create what you want.

4.  Trust the Process – Once we put ourselves on the path to love, we have to let go of the timing of how and when what we want will show up.  The Universe has its own Divine timing.  Sometimes it tests our patience.  Our job is to hold tight to what we want.  Once we set aside our doubts and fears, believe we can have what we desire, and know that we really do deserve it, the Universe will come through to deliver our fondest dreams.

5.  Have Fun – Do the things you love.  Stop waiting around for a man.  Enjoy your life right now.  Too much attention on a desire can start to push it away if we get frustrated and move into the fear that it may not happen.  When you’re out in the world having fun, your vibration is light and airy, free and easy, and that is very attractive… both to men and to the Universe.  Have the playful expectation that the best is on its way to you and you’ll be amazed at how quickly it shows up.

6.  Clear Any Blocks or Limiting Beliefs – If you’ve gotten specific about your intentions, and what you want still isn’t showing up, you probably have some blocks around it.  You may need to release old energies relating to a past love or relationship.  This includes anger, resentment, or fear of getting hurt.  Any, or all, of these will prevent new love from showing up in your life because your energy is still being held captive by the past.  You have to free your heart and energy completely before you can manifest what you desire.

There are many ways to clear your blocks.  I recommend working with a coach, journaling, The Work of Byron Katie, Emotional Freedom Technique, or the Ho’oponopono process as ways to clear what’s inside of you that’s blocking the process of manifestation.  The results we’re creating always start from within.  They’re never about what’s going on outside of us.

7.  Remember, Thoughts Become Things – Our thoughts and words carry powerful vibrations, as do our emotions.  Do you really believe you can have the relationship of your dreams?  What are you saying to yourself on a daily basis?  What are your conversations with others like?  Are you reinforcing what you want or what you don’t want with your thoughts and words?

Choose your words carefully in your self-talk and in your conversations.  When your thoughts start to run amuck, shift your attention to what you want.  Focus on how you want to feel and do whatever you need to do to get into a better feeling place.  Once you shift your thoughts and feelings, you shift your vibration.

Love is the most powerful vibration on the planet.  Shift to feeling love… for yourself, for the earth, for an animal, for your child.  You’ll become a magnet to the love of your life so quickly, you will think it appeared as if by magic.

And it will be magic.  But it will be the magic you created for yourself.

Love Life Not Working? Turn Yours Around in 90 Days

Welcome to all my new subscribers and Happy Valentine’s Day to everyone!  Love is definitely in the air and it’s such a wonderful feeling.

If you were on the Love & Law of Attraction call I did last night with Maritza Parra (Listen to the replay at http://LoveLOA.com), you know I have reunited with the love of my life and infamous Tango dancer, Paul.

Although we parted lovingly back in December, and both subsequently dated other people (which didn’t work out for either of us), the custom-made Tango shoes he had ordered for me last fall brought us back together.  For some mysterious reason, they arrived a few weeks ago after we had thought they had long ago been cancelled.

With new shoes in hand, we decided we would start dancing together again… that was all it took to reunite us.  After some long discussions about what went wrong in the past, what we had both learned in the meantime, and how much we still loved each other, we are back together stronger, better, and more in love than ever before.  Paul now refers to my new shoes as the “Reunification Shoes.”

In honor of Valentine’s Day, I decided to offer a special price (a savings of $500) for my “90 Days to Turn Your Love Life Around” Program as a gift to all of you.  If you’re ready to make a big, positive change in your love life, and prepare to meet and manifest your soul mate, this is the program that will help you make 2009 your year to attract the love of your life.

After last night’s call, I’ve had a lot of people start signing up already, so please register as soon as possible, if this program resonates with you.  The price goes back up on Sunday, February 15th.

To get started and learn how to become magnetic to the love of your life, go to http://www.inspiredheartcoaching.com/attract.

Here’s a testimonial from a wonderful client after a recent session,

“Our session was absolutely invigorating.  I appreciate you for being who you are and sharing your time and inspirational thoughts with me.  There was such an ease in talking with you, you have a gift for listening, sharing, sorting and processing.  I came into this with an open heart and mind and it was so amazing that we flew to such depths within me and really got to the core of the issue.  I'm so ready to continue on my path of healing the parts of me that will bring about more abundance in my life, for that I am so grateful!  Truly Inspired, Anna”

You deserve to have an abundance of all you desire in your life, especially love.  The core of my coaching is to help you listen to your heart, speak your truth, and live your dreams.  Allow your brilliance to magically be uncovered, and the miracles will start appearing.

What Happens When One Door Closes?

I ended a relationship recently and afterwards, I decided to do a release process to clear myself from any attachment to the past. I loved the man I'd been involved with dearly, and we still care deeply for each other, but it was time for me to move on.

I have learned doing this type of release work when a relationship ends helps me to 'declutter' my heart, and move on with my life much more easily. Depending on the length and intensity of the relationship, it has sometimes taken weeks, or months for me to completely release and let go of all the emotions. When my ex-husband and I did a parting ceremony together at the end of our marriage, it still took months before and after that for us to release each other completely. But we did, and continuing to do the release work on a daily basis helped me tremendously.

When I felt ready to start moving forward again after ending this last relationship, I called an old friend of mine, who I hadn't talked to in months. I called him mostly to say hi and to see how he was, because it had been so long since we'd talked to each other.

We met last year at a personal growth seminar. Since he is a relationship coach, and also a single parent, he was a wonderful friend to me during the months when I was newly divorced and suddenly raising my daughter on my own again. He was always there with a lot of understanding and compassion.

When I was finally ready to start dating, he told me he was interested in me as more than just a friend. Yet, he didn't want to rush me into anything. We spent a few days together last spring as friends, and had a wonderful time, but nothing more transpired. I wasn't ready, and it wasn't time. I still had more healing and release work to do around my divorce. He knew it.

When I called my friend last week, I assumed that by this time, he was probably in a relationship, or dating someone seriously. He's a handsome guy, a great coach, a successful real estate investor, and also happens to be a fabulous ballroom dancer. I figured he wouldn't be alone for long.

I called with the intention of wanting to reconnect our friendship that had meant so much to me. However, it seems he had been hoping I would call because he was still very interested in having a relationship with me. He told me he knew when we saw each other in the spring, it was too soon for me to start a serious relationship. He let me go knowing I needed to explore being single for a while, which I did. He was right. But now, everything is different.

And since I learned Argentine Tango in my last relationship, now I even know how to dance... imagine that.

What I've learned is when we let go with a full and open heart, new and wonderful things are waiting for us just around the corner. We may close one door, but the Universe can orchestrate things so much better than we can even imagine. Our job is to stay open to let them come in. When one door closes... yes, an even better one opens in its place.

I wish for you lots of new doors opening in the New Year.  If you'd like some help in closing the old ones or learning how to open the new ones, I'm happy to support you on the journey. 

  

Dawn Allen, CDC, CPTF
Love & Attraction Expert, Relationship Coach, and 
Founder of Inspired Heart Coaching
"Helping you create the relationship of your dreams... "

Are You Asking For What You Want?

I had some time to reflect on my life over this past week. I realized there were parts of it that just weren't supporting me as well as they could be. One of them was my relationship with my boyfriend. He's a wonderful man, and I've enjoyed all the time we've spent together. But I came to the realization that we are at two very different places in our lives.

He's at a point in his life where he's ready to settle down, live in one place the rest of his life, and retire in a few short years. Although he doesn't want to get married, or live with someone, he does want a partner who is available to him a great deal of the time.

I, on the other hand, have an active 13 year old, a vibrant and growing business, and a very full life. I'm years away from wanting to retire, if ever. I love what I do so much, I have my doubts I'll ever want to stop. And I have a lot of people in my life that I love spending time with... besides my daughter, there's my mother, my friends, and a pretty terrific ex-husband as well.

I want a partner who is ready to grow with me and explore everything life has to offer. I want a partner who has dreams, goals, and aspirations as big as mine, so we can share them together. And I want a partner who is ultimately interested in getting married, because that's important to me as a parent.

It would have been easy to stay with my boyfriend. Our relationship was comfortable and relaxed, and he was very much in love with me. But I knew in my heart that it wasn't the right thing to do.

So today, after a loving conversation, we parted as very dear friends. We hugged each other tightly, and he told me I was the right woman, just at the wrong time. It's all okay. I'm ready to move on with a lot of love in my heart for him, and our time together.

I will take my own advice, gently put my toes back into the water of the dating game, and see what new adventures are in store. I've set my intentions on the kind of partner I want to attract, and I can't wait to see what unfolds.

Years ago, I never would have had the courage to ask for what I want in a relationship. I either would have tried to morph myself into what I thought the guy wanted, or I would have clung to the relationship, even though it wasn't fulfilling all my needs.

That's not me anymore, thank heavens. I know now I'll never have what I truly want by trying to change who I am for someone else, or by clinging to a relationship just so I won't be alone. I have to let go so the Universe can bring me my heart's desire. I have to put myself back on the path, and begin the journey, one-step at a time. Love is in the air... my job is to stay open to it.

The world is full of wonderful men. I've had the pleasure of loving a few of them. Now, I look forward to finding the next wonderful man to love. If you're on this journey to love as well, make sure you have the courage to ask for what you want. It's the only way the Universe knows you're serious about finding the love that will fill your heart with joy. And that is exactly what you deserve.

Until then, I wish you a wonderful week filled with love, light, and blessings of abundance,

  

Dawn Allen, CDC, CPTF
Love & Attraction Expert, Relationship Coach, and 
Founder of Inspired Heart Coaching
"Helping you create the relationship of your dreams... "

The 3 Secrets to Magically Magnetize Men

Have you ever noticed how easy it is for some women to attract men into their lives, while others seem to sit around by themselves a lot?

For many years, I was one of those sitting around a lot. I just didn’t understand what some women seemed to know instinctively. Then gradually, with a lot of intention on creating something different in my love life, I learned some of those secrets that seemed to come so naturally to other women.

Here are three of the biggest secrets I learned on how to magically magnetize men…

Secret #1: Be deeply interested. I’ve had at least three clients tell me over the past few weeks that they didn’t know how to flirt, or start a conversation with a man. Here’s the great news, it’s as simple as asking a question.

For those of you who know me personally, it may come as a surprise that I grew up painfully shy. To the point where a good number of my classmates thought I was stuck-up, because I never said anything. It was actually just that I was terribly shy, and afraid of talking to people I didn’t know very well.

After years of struggling in relationships, I made the decision to do something about it, and read a book on overcoming shyness. Although reading the book helped me, what helped me even more was a conversation I had with my mother. One time, I was very stressed about going on a date with a new guy. I asked my mother for some advice. Now, you have to understand that my mother is the ultimate social queen. She loves to entertain and throw parties. She loves being around people. And men have always loved her. When she gave me advice about how to make conversation on a date, I listened.

I remember her saying very matter-of-factly, that making conversation was easy. All I had to do was ask questions. And it worked. It worked then, and it still works today. The best part was it took all the pressure off me to carry the conversation. Instead of trying to be clever or interesting, I just relaxed, and was interested in the man I was with. Not only did the man adore the fact that I showed such an interest in him, but it also gave me the opportunity to really discover if this was a man that I wanted to spend time with again, or not.

The next time you’re on a date, be interested and curious. Come from a place of wanting to understand and connect. You’ll have found the secret to having a man want to understand you, which leads me to the next secret.

Secret #2: Be a great listener. Nothing stands out in a man’s mind more than a woman who can listen. It instantly makes him want to learn more about you. True listening is becoming a lost art in our fast-paced society. When you take the time to really listen to a man, he will take notice and remember.

The other great thing about listening and being interested, is that it keeps you present, and that is my final secret.

Secret #3: Be present and in the moment. The quality of being present is irresistible to men, and truthfully, to anyone you’re having a conversation with. In our culture of constant multitasking, it’s very rare that anyone actually stops what they’re doing, gives you their undivided attention, and listens fully to what you’re saying. It is a gift.

I once dated a man who would say to me, each time I called, “Hold on. Before you begin, let me close my computer screen and turn on my answering machine. Talking to you is more important, and I want to give you my full attention.” Every time we spoke, I felt special. Even more importantly, I felt heard.

I learned a lot from my mother and from that man I dated. Being interested, listening, and staying present are three huge factors in any successful relationship, but especially in your relationship with a man.

If you give him these three gifts, they will return to you multiplied. You’ll have a man who is magnetically drawn to you… and can’t wait to see you again.

Until then, I wish you a wonderful week filled with love, light, and blessings of abundance,

  

Dawn Allen, CDC, CPTF
Love & Attraction Expert, Relationship Coach, and 
Founder of Inspired Heart Coaching
"Helping you create the relationship of your dreams... "

Do you really believe that you can attract the love of your life?

Or, are there nagging doubts and fears that consistently crop up when you start to think about manifesting the relationship of your dreams?

I was working with a client the other day, and as we discussed some of the challenges that have held her back from having her ideal relationship, she finally just sighed and said, "I guess there's just a part of me that's doesn't really believe I can have my ideal relationship." Bingo, we hit pay dirt when she made that realization.

The Law of Attraction is a very powerful universal principal, but it is essentially neutral. It simply delivers to us what we believe to be true.

So if your belief is continually wavering about whether or not it's possible for you to create your heart's desire, then that is what the Universe will bring to you... more men to waver about.

If your belief is "I'm not sure I've got the skills to develop the long-term, committed relationship I desire, because I haven't been able to in the past," then that is what the Universe will deliver... more relationships to test those skills you're not sure you have.

But here is another wonderful truth... you can turn it all around.

By unveiling and releasing those old limiting beliefs, and strengthening your faith, you can open yourself to attracting a man who is in alignment with who you are and what you want. Your life is merely a reflection of what you have given your attention to. Your thoughts and feelings are either created, by default, or consciously created, based on your beliefs.

So if you're ready to start shedding those old beliefs that have held you back, here are the first three steps to begin:

1. Be the person you want to attract in a partner. Do you want to attract a man who does nothing but complain about the past, or blames his current circumstances on people and events outside his control? Then stop doing those things yourself. If you're still reeling and hurting from a previous relationship, then get some help to release those thoughts and feelings, so you can stop carrying them into the future. If you want a man to be present with you and in the moment of your new relationship, then you have to be a woman who does this as well. If you want a man who treats you with love and respect, then be a woman who treats others (especially men) with love and respect.

2. Believe that you can have the relationship of your dreams. This, of course, is the essence of the Law of Attraction. You can only receive what you can believe and conceive. Work on clearing those old beliefs that keep holding you back from living the life, and having the love, you deserve. Use whatever method works best for you, whether that's journaling, working with a coach or counselor, or doing something like The Work of Byron Katie. Find a way to release those old beliefs so you can allow the Universe to deliver what you want. Once you really believe you deserve an extraordinary relationship, you'll attract it.

3. Feel and envision what your ideal relationship will be like for you once you have it. You need to be really clear about your desires, what you want, and what it will look like. Then take it one step further and think about how you want to feel. How do you want to feel when you're with this new wonderful man? How does having this new relationship make you feel deep inside? It's your thoughts that affect your feelings, and your feelings that send out those vibrational waves that attract or repel exactly what you're in alignment with. Be in alignment with the love you desire by feeling that love right now.

 Believe in the magic you once did as a little girl... the love songs, the happily-ever-after romantic movies (the only kind I'll watch, by the way), the wishing on a star to make your dreams come true. Yes, it all sounds like Disney fairytale magic. But magic exists if you believe. And if you believe, then you can receive the magic of love. Believe and allow it to happen to you.

Until next time...

© 2008 Dawn Allen

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How Can I Help You Find The Love of Your Life?

Welcome to all my new subscribers this week! Now that you've joined our community, I'm looking forward to our time together and the wonderful things that will happen in your love life and relationships. It is my wish to support you every step of the way on this path we're now traveling together, to help you find the love of your life, and have a deep and magical loving relationship.

There has been an overwhelming response to my "Find Your Soul Mate" F*r*e*e Session Offer, and I've been inundated with requests. I'm thrilled to be able to help as many of you as possible. I have 5 more spots available, and the offer runs through the end of next week, so please sign up as soon as possible if you're interested. Click here for all the details, and to register for your session.

This week is the second part of my article "Are You Working Too Hard to Have a Relationship?" In this article, I'll share with you the three big lessons I learned, and how I changed my behavior in relationships. I hope you enjoy it and learn from everything I did wrong in the past!

Finally, I did an interview recently with Jocelyne Teasdale to promote her new book, Beauty Enslaved. It was a wonderful interview, and I so enjoyed talking to her. If you'd like to listen to it, you can click here.

Until next time, I wish for you a week filled with love, light, and blessings,

Dawn Allen, CDC, CPTF
Love & Attraction Expert, Relationship Coach, Author and
founder of Inspired Heart Coaching(TM)
"Helping single women attract the love of their life... "