How Taking Care of Yourself Can Help You Manifest Your Dreams of Love
One of the things my ex-husband gave me for Christmas was a gift certificate for a massage from our favorite massage therapist. It reminded me of how important it is to take care of ourselves… especially when we’re wanting to attract love and manifest our dreams.
What dreams do you want to manifest? What kind of love do you want to attract?
Start with remembering what you love to do. What makes you feel good? Knowing what makes you happy is the first step in knowing what you want in a relationship. You want to attract someone who will join you in doing those things that make you happy, right?
But sometimes we get so busy doing what we need to do for others, we not only forget about doing the things that make us happy, we forget what they are.
We do what we need to do at home, we do what we need to do at work, we do what we need to do for our kids, but we forget about doing what we need to do for ourselves… doing the things that we love and that make us happy.
For years, I never took vacations, or did the things I really loved, because I was waiting for a partner to arrive to do them with me. I wasted years just doing what I needed to do to get by, but not really enjoying my life. If someone had asked me what I really loved to do, I probably couldn’t have told them, because I never did any of those things.
I attracted a lot of men who were completely wrong for me and definitely not my soul mate. I was coming from a place of need and wanting to fill a void. I was not very happy in my life, because I did very few things that brought me joy.
Keeping yourself happy and taking care of yourself is a big part of the process in attracting your soul mate and manifesting your dreams.
How do you begin when you feel like you’ve gotten lost somewhere in your own life?
Take some time to write down all the things you love to do. Make a list as long as you can. Then try to find ways to start incorporating at least one or two of them into your life. The law of attraction works best when we're happy and joyful already, not when we’re coming from a place of need or desperation looking for someone else to make us happy, like I was for years.
If you’re already living a life you enjoy, you’ll attract more of the same, more things that bring you joy… including a partner.
On your list of things you love, include what you want in a relationship and a soul mate, and how you want to feel when you’re with that special person.
Once you've uncovered the things you love, and what you want, you can create a vision for what your ideal life would look like. Write it down. Make a vision board with wonderful pictures of what you would like to bring into your life. Close your eyes and visualize.
This will imprint your subconscious with your desires. Once your subconscious believes it, the miracles start happening faster than you can imagine.
Be patient with yourself as you start this journey. Treat yourself lovingly. Take care of your body. Treat yourself with the respect and kindness you offer to those you love. Treat yourself as you would want your soul mate to treat you. When we're physically exhausted, or mentally and emotionally drained, it's impossible to deliberately create our lives and attract what we want. We go into default mode and start reacting to life's events, instead of being conscious creators.
You are a powerful creator. You can become the person you want to be, and live the life you desire. It starts with taking care of yourself, doing things that you love, and putting attention on what you want to bring into your life. Then you will start attracting all the wonderful things you deserve… including your soul mate and the relationship of your dreams.
Think about what makes you happy. Remember what made you joyful as a child. From that place of joy, you’ll attract the most joyful relationship and experiences you’ve ever imagined. You deserve it… you deserve to have all the joy in the world. It starts with taking wonderful care of yourself. You deserve that most of all.
